Mom Intentional | Identity, Purpose, Planning, Guilt, Routines, Overwhelm, Systems, Confidence, Happy Mom
***TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY RANKED PODCAST*** Do you ever look in the mirror and wonder where you went? Are your days packed, but your heart still feels empty? Have you lost sight of who you are beyond the title of “mom”? Are you so busy taking care of everyone else that you feel like a stranger in your own body? You used to have goals, passions, and a clear sense of who you were… But somewhere between diapers, dishes, and drop-offs, you lost yourself. 💖 I’m Aubree Felderhoff, SPARK Coach for Moms and Identity Mentor. After a life-altering illness brought everything to a halt, I was forced to face a hard truth: I had no idea who I was anymore. I had spent years pouring into everyone else and ignoring my own needs—until I finally broke. That moment became my turning point. Now? I help moms just like you rediscover who they are and rebuild a life that feels like them again.. On the Mom Intentional Podcast, we go beyond the surface of routines and time hacks. This is your space to reconnect with yourself, rediscover your purpose, and rebuild a life that feels like you again. Each episode offers practical tools and honest conversations to help you: ✅ Break free from survival mode and reconnect with your identity ✅ Create time for personal growth without the guilt ✅ Use simple, flexible systems to support your life—not control it ✅ Set meaningful goals that reflect who you really are ✅ Show up as the calm, confident, purpose-filled mom you want to be This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you’ve always been. You’re not broken—you’re buried. Let’s uncover you. 🎧 Subscribe now and let’s take back your spark, one intentional step at a time. 📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com 📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club 📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching
Episodes

5 days ago
5 days ago
💖 Hey Mama,
Have you ever rushed through a bedtime story or felt secretly irritated when your kid asked for “one more hug”?You know these moments matter… but you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and there’s still a mountain of stuff to do.
In this short and powerful episode, I’m sharing the emotional wake-up call that shifted everything for me—and how one poem helped me stop rushing, ditch distractions, and finally be present on purpose.
This isn’t about doing more. It’s about remembering what matters most—before it slips away unnoticed.
If you’ve ever felt the tension between showing up for your kids and getting things done, this episode is your moment to breathe, reflect, and reclaim peace.
Key Takeaways
The exact moment I realized I was missing the moments that matter
The poem that completely changed how I see bedtime, stories, and hugs
Why guilt hits hardest when you feel torn between motherhood and responsibility
A simple mindset shift to help you pause and be present without shame
How to avoid living in regret over “the last time”
One question to ask yourself the next time you’re tempted to rush
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching

7 days ago
7 days ago
💖 Hey Mama,
Have you ever felt stuck in your home—surrounded by clutter and wondering why you just can’t get on top of it? If so, you’re not alone. There’s a common clutter lie many moms believe: that if you can just organize the stuff, the overwhelm will disappear.
But here’s the truth—clutter isn’t just about the stuff. It’s about the emotions underneath it—overwhelm, guilt, anger—and if you don’t address those, you’ll stay stuck no matter how many baskets you buy.
In today’s episode, I’m joined by professional organizer Kristina Borseti to unpack this clutter lie and show you how to finally break free. Kristina shares her simple 4-step decluttering and organizing plan that helps real moms in real life seasons reduce overwhelm, clear emotional clutter, and reclaim a calmer, purpose-driven home—without chasing perfection.
If you’ve been craving a home that feels organized, peaceful, and intentional, this conversation is your starting place.
Key Takeaways
The clutter lie that’s keeping so many moms stuck
Why decluttering isn’t just about stuff—it’s about emotional clutter
How clutter triggers overwhelm, mom guilt, and anger
The 4-step organizing plan to clear clutter and reduce overwhelm
How to choose the right space and start organizing with confidence
Why planning your decluttering approach matters more than you think
How to organize your home in a way that supports your current life season
How to create a purpose-driven home that feels calm and aligned to what matters most
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌Organized on Purpose
📌Kristina's Instagram
📌Kristina's Free Facebook Community
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching

Thursday Jun 19, 2025
Thursday Jun 19, 2025
💖 Hey Mama,
Ever wonder why certain routines feel easy for you—and others feel overwhelming? Or why you approach planning, organizing, or even motherhood a little differently than other moms?
In today’s Minute of Intent, I’m sharing a surprising identity clue I stumbled on while standing in an airport security line (yes—really!). What started with a water bottle and a carry-on turned into a lightbulb moment about how we naturally plan, pack, and manage the details of life.
Are you a snack packer or a max packer? And what does that say about the way you run your home, your routines, and your mom life?
If you’ve ever struggled to fit your life into someone else’s planning system or felt frustrated with certain routines, this quick episode will help you reconnect with your unique style—so you can create routines, systems, and habits that actually fit YOU.
Key Takeaways
How a tiny travel moment uncovered a surprising identity clue
The difference between a snack packer and a max packer mom
What your packing style says about your approach to routines, planning, and organization
How this insight helps you ditch guilt and embrace your way of doing life
Why knowing your natural tendencies boosts confidence and makes intentional living easier
A simple mindset shift to help you build routines that reflect who you are
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching

Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
💖 Hey Mama,
Ever feel like you're the only one cleaning while everyone else steps over the mess like it’s invisible? 😩
You're not lazy. You're not doing it wrong. You're just trying to manage it all—and clean-up feels like one more thing on your already full plate.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing 9 decluttering hacks that actually motivate your kids to clean up—on purpose. These are playful, real-life-tested tricks I’ve used in my home to go from constant nagging… to actual help.
You don’t need a complicated system or weekend marathon clean-ups. You just need a few strategies that make tidying up simple, doable, and yes—even fun.
And don’t worry, I’m not holding back. I even share the story of the year we gave Mitch coal for Christmas—and how it changed everything.
Key Takeaways
Why your kids resist clean-up—and how to rewire their motivation
The 1-Minute Rule that eliminates 80% of your mess automatically
How to gamify clean-up so even strong-willed kids want to join in
The power of clutter baskets and tidy routines that actually work
Genius ways to use jars, hooks, and doors for fast organizing wins
How these hacks create more peace, patience, and purpose in your day
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching📌Episode 9 on Boxing Day

Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
💖 Hey Mama,
When was the last time you truly laughed with your kids—and felt like yourself in the process?
In today’s Minute of Intent, I’m sharing a surprising story about how watching a throwback TV show with my boys turned into one of the most powerful identity-boosting moments I’ve had all season. No planning. No pressure. Just presence.
This small, simple routine—something as ordinary as sitting down and watching a sitcom together—helped me reconnect with my kids and rediscover a part of myself I didn’t realize I was missing.
If you’ve been craving connection, joy, and a little reminder that intentional motherhood doesn’t always have to be complicated—this episode is for you.
Key Takeaways
Why intentional parenting doesn’t always mean planning everything out
How nostalgia and shared routines can spark deeper family connection
The overlooked power of TV time as an identity reset
What it means to feel like you again through simple joy
Why you don’t need to earn rest or connection—it’s already available
A new way to see routines that restore rather than drain you
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching

Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
💖 Hey Mama,
Ever feel like saying no makes you a bad mom?
Like the second you set a boundary, the guilt creeps in and whispers, “You should be doing more”?
In today’s powerful episode, I’m joined by Danielle Reinhart, host of the Prioritize with Purpose podcast and a recovered workaholic turned stay-at-home mom. She’s opening up about her journey from burnout and overwhelm to rediscovering her identity—and how boundaries were the turning point.
Together, we’re diving deep into what mom guilt really is, why boundaries feel so hard, and how to build a routine that helps you feel like yourself again.
If you’ve ever said yes when you really meant no, or felt like you lost your spark in motherhood, this episode is the permission slip you’ve been needing.
Key Takeaways
Why saying no doesn’t make you a bad mom
The real reason moms struggle to set boundaries
What guilt is trying to tell you—and how to reframe it
A practical mindset shift for building identity-based routines
How aligned priorities help you ditch overwhelm
Danielle’s personal strategy for setting core values and honoring them daily
How to stop equating busyness with worth in motherhood
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching📌Danielle's Podcast📌Danielle's FB group📌www.prioritizewithpurpose.com

Thursday Jun 05, 2025
Thursday Jun 05, 2025
💖 Hey Mama,
Ever have one of those days where you want to connect with your kids—but all you get back is silence, shrugs, or “I dunno”? You’re not alone. The guilt kicks in, and you start wondering if you’re doing enough... or if you’re just missing it altogether.
In today’s Minute of Intent, I’m sharing a simple 4-question routine that’s helped me reconnect with my kids on the hardest days. It doesn’t take a ton of time or energy, and you can use it anytime—in the car, during dinner, before bed, or even on a walk.
This tiny shift has created some of the most meaningful conversations in our home. So if you're craving that sense of closeness again, this one’s for you.
Key Takeaways
Why generic questions like “How was your day?” often lead to shut-downs
The 4 intentional prompts I use to create instant connection
How this routine helps relieve guilt and rebuild your confidence as a mom
Ways to adapt this for younger kids, teens, or even your spouse
Why small routines create powerful moments that shape identity
A reminder that meaningful connection doesn’t have to feel heavy or hard
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching

Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
💖 Hey Mama,
Have you ever stood in the background of your child’s life and realized… they didn’t even notice you were there?That moment can hit like a ton of bricks. You’re still their mom, but suddenly, you’re not the center of their world anymore. It’s a quiet kind of grief—a mom grief no one really talks about.
In today’s episode, we’re naming that feeling. Because letting go as your kids grow up doesn’t mean losing yourself. I’m walking you through 4 practical tips to help you release the guilt and rediscover who you are now, beyond just “Mom.”
This episode is all about giving yourself permission to grow, shift, and reconnect with your own identity—without the emotional weight dragging you down.
Key Takeaways
What “mom grief” really is—and why it’s so common but unspoken
How to let go of control without feeling like you're letting go of love
Four practical ways to shift your focus without losing your purpose
Why guilt shows up during transitions (and what to do with it)
The mindset reframe that helps you rediscover YOU
One story from my own life that helped me see this season differently
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching

Thursday May 29, 2025
Thursday May 29, 2025
💖 Hey Mama,
Have you ever realized your child might be wired completely differently than you?That happened to me recently when my son Nash decided we needed a bunny—and what unfolded from that request turned into an unexpected (and honestly hilarious) lesson about how we each approach life, parenting, and planning.
In this Minute of Intent, I’m sharing a quick but powerful story that reveals one surprising clue to help you start rediscovering your identity—not the “mom” version of you, but the real you that still exists underneath the routines, guilt, and daily chaos.
Are you a researcher or a doer? A planner or a jumper? Let’s find out—and why knowing the answer might be the breakthrough you’ve been needing to feel like yourself again.
Key Takeaways
The unexpected bunny story that made me rethink my identity
Why knowing your natural style (researcher vs. doer) matters more than you think
How your personality impacts planning, routines, and confidence
A quick mindset shift that can help you ditch the guilt and show up more fully
Why this one insight can change how you parent—and how you live
A fun and simple way to rediscover your unique spark
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching

Tuesday May 27, 2025
Tuesday May 27, 2025
💖 Hey Mama,
Ever feel like you're doing all the things—working, parenting, managing a household—yet still feeling totally unfulfilled? Like you’re lost in the whirlwind of motherhood and can’t figure out how to find your way back to you?
In today’s episode, I’m joined by the amazing Anokhi Kapasi, a scientist and host of the Solve for Mom podcast. Anokhi shares her powerful journey from high-performing researcher to overwhelmed mom—and how she used her scientific mindset to develop a life planning approach that actually works for busy moms.
If you’ve ever thought, “I want to feel like myself again, but I don’t even know where to start,” this conversation is your starting line. No guilt. No pressure. Just real tools to help you build a life on purpose—starting with one small, intentional choice.
Key Takeaways
How Anokhi’s scientific background led her to create a life planning method for moms
The “GPS” approach to building a meaningful, intentional life
What to do when life feels like it’s happening to you instead of through you
Why planning isn’t just about tasks—it’s about identity, values, and vision
How to ditch the mom guilt and model intentional living for your kids
One simple action you can take today to start feeling more balanced
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Happier Mom Club📌 Book a Coaching Call: momintentional.com/coaching📌 Anokhi's Website: Solve for Mom📌 Anokhi’s Podcast: Solve for Mom