Mom Intentional | Identity, Purpose, Systems, Routines, Overwhelm, Planning

Do you ever look in the mirror and wonder where you went? Are your days packed, but your heart still feels empty? Have you lost sight of who you are beyond the title of “mom”? Are you so busy taking care of everyone else that you feel like a stranger in your own body? You used to have goals, passions, and a clear sense of who you were… But somewhere between diapers, dishes, and drop-offs, you lost yourself. 💖 I’m Aubree Felderhoff, Mom Identity Coach and Purpose-Driven Transformation Expert. After a life-altering illness brought everything to a halt, I was forced to face a hard truth: I had no idea who I was anymore. I had spent years pouring into everyone else and ignoring my own needs—until I finally broke. That wake-up call led me to rebuild my life from the inside out. Now, I help other moms do the same. On the Mom Intentional Podcast, we go beyond the surface of routines and time hacks. This is your space to reconnect with yourself, rediscover your purpose, and rebuild a life that feels like you again. Each episode offers practical tools and honest conversations to help you: ✅ Break free from survival mode and reconnect with your identity ✅ Create time for personal growth without the guilt ✅ Use simple, flexible systems to support your life—not control it ✅ Set meaningful goals that reflect who you really are ✅ Show up as the calm, confident, purpose-filled mom you want to be This isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about remembering who you’ve always been. You’re not broken—and you don’t have to stay stuck. This podcast is your invitation to rise, rebuild, and finally feel like yourself again. 🎧 Subscribe now and let’s take back your identity, one intentional step at a time. 📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com 📌 Coaching & Resources: www.momintentional.com

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Episodes

2 days ago

💖 Hey Mama,
You know that moment when your whole family votes for someone else in a fun game—and it stings more than you expected? That happened to me. But instead of brushing it off, I turned it into an intentional system that brought more laughter, connection, and lighthearted routine into our everyday lives.
In today’s Minute of Intent, I’m sharing how a playful “Vote for Me” challenge became a fun family game that didn’t just bring fun—but helped us create more intentional moments of joy on purpose.
Whether your home feels a little too serious or you’re craving a routine that brings you closer together, this idea is a quick, low-pressure way to reset the tone of your day—without adding more to your plate.
Key Takeaways
How a fun road trip game sparked an intentional family system
The simple “Vote for Me” tradition we use at dinner to stay connected
How to bring more joy into your daily routine with one playful shift
A lighthearted way to reduce emotional overwhelm and connect as a family
Why intentional doesn’t always have to mean structured or serious
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call
 

4 days ago

💖 Hey Mama,
Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought… Where did I go?You’re doing all the things—keeping up with routines, pouring into your family, trying to stay organized—but somehow, you still feel off. You feel lost in the noise of motherhood. You crave calm, clarity, and just one day where you feel like you again.
In today’s episode, we’re digging into that exact feeling—and I’m walking you through my 3-step W.I.N. system that helps you go from stuck and overwhelmed to grounded and intentional. This isn’t just another planning tip. This is about rediscovering your identity through a system that actually works for your life.
If you’ve ever felt like your days are slipping through your fingers, this episode will help you take that first step to win them back.
Key Takeaways
Why traditional time management tools aren’t enough when you feel lost
The three emotional responses to overwhelm—and which one is keeping you stuck
How to identify what you really want when everything feels like too much
The “invisible obstacle” that’s standing between you and your goals
How the W.I.N. system helps you reconnect with your identity
A real-life story of how I turned overwhelm into clarity with one mindset shift
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call
 

Thursday Apr 17, 2025

💖 Hey Mama,
You know that moment when bedtime hits and you’re completely drained—but you still have a whole routine to get through? I’ve been there. That’s exactly why I created one of my favorite mom hacks... and it all started out of pure exhaustion.
In today’s Minute of Intent, I’m sharing a time-saving bedtime routine that flips the script, gives you back your energy, and creates a sweet connection with your kids. This one small switch has brought so much calm and joy to our evenings—and it just might warm your heart too.
Key Takeaways
Why our family created “Family Fun Night” and how it inspired this bedtime hack
How flipping the routine helps you get more rest while empowering your kids
A playful way to build connection and give your kids a sense of responsibility
Why this system works for a wide range of ages (even the littlest ones can pretend!)
How it helps bring calm, joy, and consistency to your evenings
The surprising emotional benefit of letting your kids take care of you for a change
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call

Tuesday Apr 15, 2025

💖 Hey Mama,
Ever wonder why you’re always behind, even when you’re constantly doing all the things? You’re checking boxes, running the household, managing the chaos—but somehow, it never feels like enough. I’ve been there too, and today we’re going to talk about what’s really stealing your time... and the simple planning hack that can help fix it for good.
We’ll chat about the unseen load of motherhood, how our own expectations add to the pressure, and the power of building intentional routines and systems that lighten the mental load. You don’t need to overhaul everything—you just need a fresh way to look at the repeat tasks in your life and get them on autopilot.
If you’re feeling that daily overwhelm from things that never end—laundry, meals, dishes, appointments—this episode will help you pause, reset, and finally start feeling in control. It’s time for a new kind of time management—one that fits your life as it really is.
Key Takeaways
Why you’re stuck in the “always behind” cycle
The mental load most moms don’t talk about
How to lower stress by shifting your expectations
One simple planning trick to save hours each week
Quick ways to automate your most exhausting tasks
How to say yes to support and simplify your routines
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call

Thursday Apr 10, 2025

💖 Hey Mama,
You know those everyday chores that somehow eat up way more time than they should? Yeah—sock sorting is one of them.
In today’s Minute of Intent, I’m sharing a brilliant (and surprisingly freeing) laundry hack I learned from my son Nolan. It’s one of those time-saving routine shifts that can literally give you back hours over a lifetime. If you’re still pairing socks after every load, this one's for you.
Key Takeaways
The unexpected lesson I learned from my son while teaching him laundry
Why matching socks might be a complete waste of your time
A simple system to streamline laundry and reduce overwhelm
How buying the same kind of sock can change everything
Why this is especially helpful for moms of multiple kids
What you could be doing with all that time instead of sorting socks
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call

Tuesday Apr 08, 2025

💖 Hey Mama,
If you’ve ever looked around and thought, “I’m failing at work, I’m failing at home, and I have no idea how to fix it,” you are so not alone. In this episode, I’m sitting down with the amazing Kim Patten—a mom of two, project manager at an S&P 500 company, and author of Pivot. She’s walked the hard road of transitioning from career life to stay-at-home mom and back again, and today she’s opening up about what really helped her let go of guilt and find balance.
We’re talking through how to create simple routines, manage your time without the overwhelm, and let go of perfection so you can show up for the life you actually want to live. Her “Power of 3” time management strategy is gold—you’ll want to grab a notebook for this one.
Key Takeaways
Why so many moms feel like they’re failing in every role—and what to do about it
Kim’s “Power of 3” system for daily planning that keeps things simple and focused
How to identify whether your daily tasks actually align with your values
The real reason we feel so disconnected—and how to reconnect with who you are
Practical ideas for routines that calm the chaos and reduce emotional overwhelm
How to start involving your kids in home systems (even if it’s not perfect)
Encouragement for making big life pivots without fear or regret
This episode is filled with honest encouragement and practical tools to help you stop striving for perfection and start building a life that feels intentional, calm, and aligned with what matters most.
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call📌 Kim’s Website: www.thepivotmom.com📌 Follow Kim on Instagram: @kim.thepivotmom📌 Grab Kim’s Book “Pivot” on Amazon

Thursday Apr 03, 2025

💖 Hey Mama,
Ever found yourself brushing your teeth at the end of a long day only to realize… you’re out of toothpaste? Yep—been there. That one frustrating moment led me to create a simple organization system that has completely changed how our family handles bathroom chaos.
In this Minute of Intent, I’m sharing the #1 bathroom system that’s helped me ditch the overwhelm, stop the last-minute scrambles, and finally get back my time (and my toothpaste). Bonus? It teaches your kids responsibility too.
Key Takeaways
The surprising story that led to a totally time-saving solution
How to create a personal “store” system in your kids’ bathroom
Why this organization hack ends the overwhelm and puts you back in control
A built-in system that shows you exactly when to reorder—no more guessing
Empowering your kids with small routines that promote responsibility
How simple home systems bring more calm to your daily chaos
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call

Tuesday Apr 01, 2025

💖 Hey Mama,
Are you constantly dropping the ball and wondering how your week slipped away… again? You’re not alone. Between the school pickups, forgotten appointments, and endless to-do lists, the overwhelm is real. That’s exactly why I created the T.I.M.E. Planning System—a simple, four-step method to help you stop reacting and start planning your week with purpose.
In today’s episode, I’m walking you through this powerful time management system designed specifically for busy moms like you. Whether you’re deep in survival mode or just tired of the chaos, this weekly routine will help you finally feel organized, calm, and in control of your days.
I’m also sharing a real-life mom moment (yes, I forgot one of my kids!) to show just how easily things fall apart without a system—and how quickly peace returns when we have the right routine in place.
Key Takeaways
Why living without a plan leads to daily overwhelm
The 4 simple steps in the T.I.M.E. planning system
How to track your week and input the “immovables”
What it means to map out your personal “anchors”
How to establish your daily Top 3 and actually get things done
The real-life story that reminded me why this system is non-negotiable
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call
 

Thursday Mar 27, 2025

💖 Hey Mama,
Tired of constant sibling squabbles over who gets to choose dinner, the movie, or skip the chore? I’ve been there, and today I’m sharing one of my all-time favorite mom hacks that completely changed the tone in our home: the Special Person of the Week system.
In this Minute of Intent, you’ll learn how planning this one simple system brought peace, eliminated the drama, and made our family nights so much more fun. It’s quick to set up, easy to follow, and your kids will love it.
If you’re looking for more calm, more intentional connection, and way less bickering—this one’s for you.
Key Takeaways
A quick mom hack to stop the “Who picks what?” arguments
How to set up the Special Person system (even with multiple kids!)
The unexpected benefits of letting each child have their moment
Why it’s more about peace than privilege
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
Links and Resources:
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call
 
 

Tuesday Mar 25, 2025

💖 Hey Mama,
Do you ever feel like you're doing all the things—checking the boxes, keeping everyone clean and fed—but missing out on the joy of actually enjoying motherhood? You’re not alone.
In this episode, you get a permission slip to pause the hustle, loosen the grip on that overpacked routine, and bring more fun, laughter, and light-heartedness back into your home. These five small but powerful routine shifts will help you reclaim joy, build connection with your kids, and turn ordinary moments into the intentional lasting memories you crave.
From spontaneous dance parties to easy family traditions, we’ll talk about how to create a rhythm that supports fun without sacrificing structure. If you’ve been stuck in survival mode or overwhelmed by all the planning, this is your reminder that motherhood gets to be enjoyable, too.
Key Takeaways
Learn why planning less might be the key to creating more fun
Easy ideas to celebrate random or overlooked holidays without extra stress
Fun family traditions that cost nothing—but create priceless memories
How laughter (especially at yourself!) can completely shift the mood at home
Tips for connecting with your kids in ways you both genuinely enjoy
How to turn everyday chaos into core memories
Cheering you on 🎉,Aubree
 
Links and Resources:
📌 Email: hello@momintentional.com📌 Facebook Community: Mom Intentional Club📌 Book a Coaching Call

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